You’ve always been the one who holds it together.

But lately, it feels like a lot to carry.

Therapy for high-achieving teen girls and women in Stony Brook,NY

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Are you navigating anxiety, perfectionism, and the pressure to keep everything looking okay on the outside? If so, you’re probably seen by others as successful, but you still feel overwhelmed, disconnected, or not like yourself inside.

You’ve been holding a lot together for a long time. Maybe it’s the worry that never fully turns off ~ the kind that follows you while you try to sleep, in your friendships, or moments that should feel okay, but don’t. Maybe it’s something you’ve been carrying for a while ~ loss, a relationship that left it’s mark, or experiences you haven’t fully been able to make sense of. Or maybe you’ve reached a point where you can feel the disconnect between how your life looks on the outside and how it actually feels on the inside.

You’ve learned how to keep going ~ how to show up, be strong, and handle what’s expected of you. But that doesn’t mean it hasn’t taken a toll. When you’re used to being the one who holds everything together, it can be hard to know where to put your own feelings, especially when they don’t match the life you’ve worked so hard to build.

Therapy becomes a space where you don’t have to perform or filter yourself.

A place where the pressure softens, and you can begin to understand why you feel the way you do ~ without judgement.

As things start to make sense, something shifts. The noise quiets. You feel more steady. And you begin to trust yourself again in ways you may not have in a long time.

Adrienne Licari

I work with high-achieving teen girls and women who are navigating:

  • Anxiety that doesn’t fully turn off

  • Perfectionism and pressure to succeed

  • Relationship stress or disconnection

  • Grief, loss, or unresolved past experiences

  • Feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or not like yourself

You don’t have to keep carrying this on your own.

Specialties

Are you concerned about changes in your teen?

Parents often reach out to me when their teen is struggling with anxiety, school pressure, friendships, or big emotional changes.

Today’s adolexcents are often carrying more pressure than many parents realize.

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Positive Therapy Services

215 Hallock Rd Suite 3D
Stony Brook, NY 11790